My journey with "Estrangement the Road to Transformation" has been about finding purpose in the pain. It's about turning the difficult experience of family conflict into an opportunity for growth and understanding. We know how challenging it is for families facing these issues, and we're here to offer support and guidance.

Why wailing in the kitchen?

Imagine this: I am standing  in my kitchen, wailing, not crying-wailing. My life felt like it had been shredded into pieces. The phone calls had stopped, the children were gone. And all I had were memories- beutiful, yet haunting reminders of everythihg I had lost. Divorce, separation of the family unit, estrangement from my loved ones. All is gone. The photos on the fridge stared back at me, taunting me with their stillness, while I was left grappling with the chaos that had taken over my life. It felt like the end, like there was no way forward.

 But then, something shifted. What if this wasn't the end? What if this was a stage for a new beginning?   Even as I cried every single day, I began to notice something remarkable: the pain wasn't just breaking me it was reshaping me. Rejection, slander and criticism, which I had once seen as enemies, became my most unlikey allies. Let me share something about rejection it hurts. Deeply, it cuts to the core. It's like death by a million cuts. But here is the secret nobody tells you: rejection is also an invitation. It invites you to grow, to change, to step into a version of yourself you didnt even know existed.

Think of gold being purified. The process is intense, violent even.It's burned, melted, and refined, over and over, until all impurities are gone. That's what  rejection did to me. It burned away the parts of me that weren't meant to stay. It forced me to confront my flaws, my insecurities and my fears. And trough the process, I found strength. The same strength that the enemy tried to use to destroy me became the foundation for growth. Rejection has a way of stripping you down to your core, leaving with you with two choices: let it define you or refine you. I chose the latter.........